You Can Always Get What You Want

"Things that matter most, must never be at thecompanies now offer retirement plans other than
mercy of things that matter least." Johannthe 401K type plans.
Wolfgang von GoetheBox 2 people are typically professionals who have
Most of us don't work out what we want. Anda drive for recognition by their peers or who
most of us end up with lopsided lives as a result.want to be the best in their field. They want to
We may get work right and relationships wrongbe independent and do not fit well into
or the other way around. The 80/20 Principleorganizations. If you are like this, you should
records this sorry state. Twenty percent of whatbecome self-employed as quickly as possible. You
we do leads to 80 percent of the results. But 80should also resist the temptation to employ other
percent of what we do leads to only 20 percent.people as they want to avoid professional
We are wasting 80 percent of out effort ondependence on others as far as possible.
low-value outcomes.Box 3 people have high drive and ambition, hate
If we follow the 80/20 Principle, we can workbeing employed but do not want the lonely life of
less, earn more, enjoy more, and achieve more.the sole trader. They may be unconventional, but
To do this we must start with a rounded view ofthey are builders: they want to build a web or a
everything we want.structure around themselves. They are
Do you enjoy life?tomorrow's entrepreneurs. If you want to work
Am I living with the right person or people?with other people, but not for them, you are a
Am I living in the right place?Box 3 person.
Am I working the right hours and do they matchBox 4 people do not give a high drive for career
my ideal work/play rhythm, and suit my familyachievement but do enjoy working with others.
and social needs?They would ensure that they spend many hours
Do I feel in control?a week doing so, either in a conventional job or in
Can I exercise or meditate when I want?a voluntary role.
Am I nearly always relaxed and comfortable withBox 5 people are not ambitious but do have a
my surroundings?strong desire for autonomy in their work. Rather
Does my lifestyle make it easy for me to bethan set up their own firm, the best role for Box
creative and fulfill my potential?5 people is as freelancers, working on particular
Do I have enough money and are my affairsprojects for other firms to suit their own
organized so that I don't have to worry aboutconvenience.
them?Box 6 people are individuals whose need for
Does the lifestyle facilitate whatever contribution Icareer achievement is low but who enjoy the
want to make to enriching the lives of people Iprocess of organizing and developing others. Many
want to help?teachers, social workers, and charity workers are
Do I see my close friends enough?Box 6 people and are well suited to their roles.
Is the extent of travel in my life just right, notFor Box 6 people the journey is everything; there
too much, or too little?is no need to arrive.
Is the lifestyle right for my partner and familyMany people gravitate toward their "right" box,
too?but where alienation at work exists it is often
Do I have everything that I need right here: do Ibecause the person is in the wrong box.
have it all?What about money?
What about work?What indeed! Most people think it's more
Almost everyone needs to work, whether it isimportant than it is and more difficult to get than
paid or not. We should not allow work to takeit is. How do you obtain money in the first place?
over our lives, however much we claim to enjoyThe best answer, one that works surprisingly
it. The 80/20 Principle can provide a goodoften, is to do something that you enjoy.
measure and a good way to see whether youIf you enjoy something, you are likely to be good
should work more of less. If you are happierat it. If you are good at something, you can
outside of work than at work, you should workcreate something that will satisfy others and they
less and/or change your job. If you are happier atwill generally pay you well for it.
work than outside of work, you should workOnce you have a little spare cash, it can be easily
more and/or change your social life. You haven'tmultiplied. Save and invest.
got it right until you are equally happy at workI have a friend, Dave that does quite well
and not at work, and until you are happy at leastpumping stocks. Dave has found some stocks
80 percent of the time at work and 80 percentthat are cyclic and he has set guide lines for
of the time not at work.buying and selling. When a stock reaches his high
There does not have to be any conflict betweengoal, he sells and then places a buy order at the
your work life and the things you enjoy outsidelow goal. When the stock reaches his low goal, he
of work. You may be able to work in an areabuys and then places a sell order again at the high
that is your hobby or even turn your hobby intogoal. He does not have to work hard or keep
a business. Enthusiasm can lead to success, it istrack of the stocks, only waits for the orders to
often easier to make an enthusiasm into a careerexecute.
than to become enthusiastic about a careerIf this sounds complicated, then just buy a index
dictated by others.fund and hold it for the long haul.
Whatever you do, be clear about the optimumWhat about achievement?
point you are trying to reach and view it withinThere are people who want to achieve and then
your life's total context. This is easier said thanthere are sane people. All motivational writers fall
done: old habits are hard to break and theinto the trap of telling you that you need direction
importance of a lifestyle is easily set aside forand purpose in life. Then they tell you that you
career.don't have it. Then they put you through the
Which type of career will make you happiest?agony of deciding what it should be. Finally, they
Do you have a high drive for achievement andtell you what they think you ought to do.
career success?So if you don't want to achieve anything specific
Would you be happiest working for anand are happy enough going through life having it
organization, as a self-employed and self-all (minus achievement), count yourself lucky and
contained individual, or employing other people?read no further.
Draw 6 boxes, three on top and three on theBut if you want achievement and want to
bottom, label the upper three High and the lowerincrease it, the 80/20 Principle can help you.
three Low. From left to right label the left two,Achievement should be easy. It shouldn't be "99
"Prefer working in organizations," middle two,percent perspiration and 1 percent inspiration."
"Prefer being a self-employed sole trader," rightInstead, see if it's true that 80 percent of your
two, "Prefer employing or organizing others."achievement to date, measured by what you
Number the boxes 1 through 3 on the top and 4yourself value, has come from 20 percent of
through 6 on the bottom. Try to select the boxyour inputs. If true or nearly true, then think
that describes you best.carefully about this top 20 percent. Could you
Box 1 people are highly ambitious but prefer tosimply repeat the achievements? Upgrade them?
work in a context organized and provided byReproduce similar ones on a grander scale?
others. These jobs are with large organizationsCombine two previous achievements to
and the need for these jobs may be falling. If youcompound the satisfaction?
want this type of role, you should recognize thisWhat about relationships?
and pursue your ambition, however unfashionableWe've dealt with work, with lifestyle, with money,
it may become. Large organizations still provideand with achievement. To have it all, you also
structure and status even if they can no longerneed a few satisfying relationships. This will require
provide security. I retired from this type ofanother article or read The 80/20 Principle, By
organization at a time when they did provideRichard Koch, ISBN 0-385-49174-3.
security in the form of a retirement plan. Few